Friendship is a strong bond but also can be easily broken. Friendship can be a strong bond if there are these four keys: honesty, openness, understanding, and trust each other. Friendship is not just about similiarity in hobbies, interests or characters, it’s about how to make friends, learn about friend’s character, how to respond, and how to keep it. Maybe it’s easy to make friends but, are they really a good and real friend? A good friend will not just proud when you do the good things but also when you can admit your mistakes and introspection yourself. It means, a good friend is a person who will not just say “you’re really a good person” but also say “you’ve done something wrong”. Will you be angry? Better not, because your friend just want to be honest and with openness, you’ll say “thank you for reminding me”. Do you have problems and need someone to trust and rely on? Go to your friend because actually, a real friend is a person who not just shows up when you are happy but especially in a hard time. A real friend will be right there, beside you, listen your problems, wipe your tears, hug you, encourage you, so you can face your problems and then see you smile again. A real friend will not tell anyone your secret unless you give them your permission because they understand and appreciate you. Friends of mine say: “Better lost a boyfriend or girlfriend than lost bestfriend ‘cause it’smore easy looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend than a bestfriend. A real friend is hard to find”. Friendship is not depend on how long your friendship relationship has been started. It’s about how you feel about it. If you just feel that friendship is just a common word that means some people who hang out together and tell story to each other, you’ll never know what is friendship really means about. But if you really appreciate it, you’ll find how much friendship really means – togetherness. Just remember, honesty, openness, understanding, and trust are needed inside friendship relationship.
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